For everyone who wanted to know... Court went really well for us. We got all the placement with Master's daughter that we were asking for and then some. The ex tried to make more rules for us to follow and the judge threw out her proposal after getting lost for the 4th time on it and went with what we had. The lawyer told us that all information we had gathered before hand had gone to to the judge and he read through it so he knew what we had to deal with with the woman. It was awesome when he told her, "You have no control. I have the control" then turned around and gave us everything we requested. So after putting it all the calendar we actually have almost as much time with the kiddo as the mother does. Not quite as much but we do have to deal with school year. The kiddo does have to attend school. So yay on that. Now we have the money issues to deal with and then we are done with this woman! Woot!